I can only judge you based on your actions. I don’t care about your shield of irony or “layers of context,” and I definitely don’t care about your apathy.
I just care about what you do.
Everyone mis-speaks and sometimes says things they regret. Maybe you were trying to be funny and failed – that’s all cool and ok, because you’ve got the irrefutable record of your actions to back you up.
We can over-intellectualize this stuff and end up chasing our tails – I don’t really give a shit about that.
I will, however, make my judgment based on what you do and not a single mis-step you made publicly.
To quote Joe E. Brown: Nobody’s perfect.